How To Tell The Kids

[Ready2Change]

R2C, I would advise you to get an agreement. Tonight I will talk to her about how we are going to split the financial obligations.

I guess you missed my point. Think hard about what should you pay for. I still happily give MsR2C a monthly child support check. This is for the well being of my children. It is my responsibility to make sure they taken care of. I DO NOT GIVE HER ANY MORE. When I was in the marital home, I kept up on my 50% of the household expenses. Mortgage,utilities,insurance.....

I'll also talk to her about a kids schedule.

"She tells them NO". Are you still married? This is OK after you are D. Stand up to this woman. Make plans for your family. Lead. I give you this advise based on my understanding of what works. Tell her that you plan on spending every weekend and weeknight with your family until ordered not do do so by a court of law.