My Wife is Having an Affair with Co-Worker

[wanttobebetter]

Wanttobebetter,

Really? How does this help them to not face the consequences of their actions?

Because they don't have to deal with it when they are pre-occupied with someone else. The next best thing is always around the corner...messed up thought process.

Are you and your W still together? Yes

Did your W finally stop her affairs? Yes - but it took getting to the lowest point in her life to get there. Her whole world crashed down on her (relationships, work, personal life). She is wiser for it and I definitely am. To live through the experience will teach you a lot about your spouse and yourself. You are going through some of the darkest days of your life. Keep moving forward, stay on this board and listen to the advice you are given.

I will have to look for your sitch.

Thank you so much for explaining to me some of the reasons she is doing what she is doing.

I am trying to pay it forward. While things are really good now, I had some real bad days when I didn't know what was up and down. This place helped me keep my sanity and made me a wiser person. Good luck.