Would it make a difference in the outcome? It might. You don't know unless you try. It might make a huge difference.
wouldn't that be breaking the cardinal rule of no r/m talk?
i think my ic has me convinced that he is no longer emotionally attached so it doesn't matter what i say or do. that i need to move on.
telling him this now would make little to no difference. he will not see or talk to me except when we are at the squash club. i will not discuss our private issues in public. and texting/email is too dangerous.
i would tell him if i could sense something but i sense a cold chill from him. so i just leave our conversation to general stuff.
thanks for pulling that stuff over from the newcomers post i don't like to put info in two places.
