I'd stop inviting for now. Again, she filed for divorce! That is automatically saying, ummmm, NO! And that would also offer reason why she won't ask you.

Why do I say this? Because, ding-dong me back in the school of hard knocks did the same thing and didn't get the same picture for a while. Then I stopped asking. If the kids would ask why I wasn't inviting mom anymore, I simply told them, "mom knows she is more than welcome to join us, but (oh my here it is again, Dan) it is what it is guys, let's make the best of it".

And, do you knwo what the first thing that happened was to get us back together? She asked ME if she could come to dinner with us.


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11