Yes. It was short and to the point. Do not contact me as, I plan on working my marriage out. I don't recall the exact words, everything was deleted afterwards. If I see OM contact her again, I will tell W that she needs to send him this again, and that OM better respect this. You (OM) are now blocked from all my (W) email.chats, and phone.

Can I get involved and confront OM if he does not respect her wishes?

Me 31 Wife 34
(Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6
Married 3/3/01
Separated 6/4/10
Bomb 6/14/10
Served 6/22/10
EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10
Now Back Together 8/1/10