R2C, I would advise you to get an agreement. Tonight I will talk to her about how we are going to split the financial obligations.
I'll also talk to her about a kids schedule.
Regardig outings with the kids...When I plan an outing with the kids, I have consistently been asking her if she wants to come along and she consistently says no. When she schedules things with the kids, she never invites me and if the kids ask if I am coming along, she tells them no.
Should I stop inviting her at this point or continue to be courteous? Continuing to ask her doesn't seem like DBing anymore, it's more like just another chance for her to reject me.
