I strongly suggest you put a plan together here in the thread :
1. Start going to lunch with WH - puts pressure on OW to see that 2. Have WH write up No Contact Letter that both sign and sen to OW 3. Write letter to OW to ask if she's been tested - more pressure 4. Print up articles on how divorce harms children 5. Have WH end ALL contact with OW including the workplace 6. Have WH attend family therapy with you to explore damage further and to be educated on the impact choices will have on children
Number six is new... I think its important to do this, even if he's saying he's determined to get the divorce, you can tell him he needs to educate himself on the harm he's bringing to his children by doing so... This isnt' just about HIM and how HE FEELS right now... He has to consider YOU, his children AND OW H with his plans ... just beucase this is what HE wants doesnt' mean you pursue it blindly...
