How To Tell The Kids

[dday101798]

Is this a safe topic to approach while trying to DB?

Dan, honestly at this point, the only thing to be concerned with in "DB'ing" is to become the best you can be for YOU and your KIDS. Can't say it anymore, if your W comes around, she comes around, if not............ well, remember this?: It is what it is.

She seems too 6 of one, half dozen of the other right now. And, it's still way too soon in the game. Time, patience, and detachment are your only friends now. Give her what she thinks she wants. And since that has serious financial implications, I see nothing wrong with adressing them as they arise. But do so in a courtieous way to her, but always remember in the back of your head so that you don't balk, "If I'm not good enough, nor is my money, or anything else I've provided her for the last X amount of years" She's already proclaimed in the most profound way, she thinks she doesn't want it anymore. Mine didn't like that reality check too much either, but, guess what I told her? It is what it is.