Lees ~ Believe me, I'm greiving. Every minute of every day.
This is where real progress is made - it certainly was for me anyway. Don't let every minute of every day be spent in negative thoughts of what has been. You can't change what has happened, only what you do in the future. Spend most of your day thinking about what can be, positive things and how to achieve them. That is the route out from here.
Reality is that which, if you don't believe in it, doesn't go away.
