Anyway, the question I now have is do I approach W about working something out regarding bill paying? I was thinking about telling her that since the hearing was delayed, I want to work something out that looks like what the court MAY have ordered. Something like splitting the bills based on our incomes? Is this a safe topic to approach while trying to DB?
If I was in your current sitch, what would you recommend I do?
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I know it will probably make her mad, but I don't care and I think we need to have some rules.
Good. Do not fear her anger. Lead and set boundaries. "I have decided xyz" works well.
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We have also been racing to schedule dates to do things with the kids. If one has already booked, the other is out.
Keep all agreements but do not make anymore. "That doesn't work for me. I have plans with the kids that day that. You are more than welcome to join us" Be the rock.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
