I definitely dont want to go back to the "old marriage"
Sometimes marriages suffer when people start taking each other for-granted. After what has happened, I'm sure those lessons were learned and you are aware of things that you have to watch...and that's a good thing. Your marriage will be stronger for it.
Have a great Vacation with your Old/New Husband
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
We did have a great time on our vacation! Kids had fun, we had fun...just a great time together as a family again!
Now I do have to say after spending a week together with them all...its nice to be back at work...alone
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
LOL - sounds like you need a vacation to recover from your vacation. Kidding...so happy for you that you had a nice time. That must feel so good to be a family again.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
Yes Mila...isnt that how it always is??? Needing a vacation after just having one! I was so wore out when we got back!
Thanks Seeking answers! I did have a wonderful time...now Im really beginning to look forward to next week....kids are going to camp alllll weeeekkkkk longggg! I love my kids to death, but I really need some ME time...oh and my H too. Im sure I will miss them though...I mean, a quiet house???
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
Ugh! Any ideas on how to handle confrontations with people any better?? I hate it! No, this doesnt involve my H, lol. BUT, I believe handling things like this better may help me with my H on some things.
Just having a bad couple of days at work.
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
My days are getting better. Just people trying to make me feel bad because they want someone to blame other than themselves! ugh! lol
My kids went off to camp without any problems. They were VERY excited and my son said he was nervous too. Im sure they will have lots of fun. I miss them already.
My H spent the day together yesterday doing a little shopping and eating lunch together. Then he got a call about someone needing him to work a few nights this week for him, so I told him to go ahead. He did ask me first and we could always use the money, but that means I wont see but 2 nights this week! So I will be doing things at home to occupy my time. Like cleaning out my kids rooms while they are gone! That should take all week!!
Hope everyone is doing well!
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
Went to Child support court yesterday. Finally got it stopped. It felt very weird to be in a courtroom full of parents who werent supporting their kids at all. So sad to see. We were the oddballs and the last case to be heard which was good in a way. I had to be sworn in and even had to get on the stand to say why I filed a motion and why I wanted it stopped. The judge wished us luck and that was it. Took all of 2 minutes to do! SO GLAD ITS OVER Though!!
The courtroom can be very intimidating.
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Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
