It is like having a life preserver (the "maybe")...do you really learn how to swim if you have that to grab on to?
Perhaps some people do...but the temptation to grab that life preserver is too high for most people. IMO
Excellent point. I've jumped into the deep end, it's time to either sink or swim. Sinking isn't really an option, and treading water isn't much better.
I can't really swim while still holding on.
formerly known as "shelbel" Me 40, stbxh 40 DSs 9, 7 & 3 M9, T10 Stbxh is a diagnosed bipolar & an addict. The end.
