I've got this issue too- living in same house for various reasons. I try to get out a lot, do my own thing when we're both home, etc. It's not perfect, but it's the best I can do when we're in the same house. Now, emotionally and mentally truly letting go, well, I'm not there yet. It's probably easier if you don't live together but if I weren't living with him, I think my thoughts and paranoia about what he's doing or who he's with would actually be MUCH worse--
