Originally Posted By: Allen A
Hold on.. you are meeting her parents WITH her THERE?

No no no. Just with her parents. Sorry for the confusion. I'm not ready for that kind of intervention!


Originally Posted By: Allen A

Get more info on OM from these people.. find out others who have had this problem with him.. you may hve more support than you think...

If he's done thisto a few other men's wives you may want to gather those married men together and all of you have a "chat" with him...


There's only one person that he's affected that may still care. The problem is they are still really good friends. What if he just gives the details of the plan to OM? Or do I just make him aware and tell him he needs to have a chat with his buddy (OM)?


M34 W35
S5 S2
T10 M6
on/off over the years including her A
Recently-
Nov 2015 bomb
Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling
Feb bomb
March-April Reconciling
May - bomb
Mid-May I tell her I'm done