Your W's attitude has nothing to do with you being not-attractive or assertive or whatever. She's got some deeply personal issues that she has to resolve on her own.
If she seeks your help, then fine. But you have to be sure you don't keep enabling her behavior. She's an addict and needs the "fix". The drugs will make her paranoid and passive aggressive. You have to not get wrapped up in her drama and start living your life.
Get help for your low self esteem first. Get that so at least you can get into a nice, HEALTHY relationship and not one that's based on co-dependency. Your "dating" is just like your W marrying a guy she hardly knows. Both of you are alike in that way. One of you needs to be healthy.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
