The adventure chronicles--moving on

[AFWAW]

Been a while since I've updated. Since my divorce on 2 Jun, my ex has had a guy move in w/ her and is supposedly going to marry him? Whatever, I don't care about. The problem I have is my daughter is over there for the 5 weeks visitation for the summer and she is living in contact w/ this person that I don't know.

My ex emailed the other day on Facebook and sent me a friend request. This is what it said: Would you let daughter stay here through her first semester of school? I really hope you and I can be civil. You still mean a lot to me. Thank you for taking such good care of daughter. She dropped the F bomb on me a couple of times so I'll be making sure she gets some church attendance in over the next couple of weeks.

I had my daughter for this weekend and she told me that she confronted her mother about the guy staying with her and told her she thought it was inappropriate. My ex asked my daughter if she wanted her to ask him to leave. She said, yes and the ex told her, well I'm not going to do that. She told my daughter she was going to marry him. My daughter said, oh you lied to me about getting married again. She responded, well, I've known this guy for a while. My daughter said, Oh, yet another lie--you told me you only knew him for 2 weeks. Ex asked daughter--why do you call Daddy every night--daughter--because I love him and want him to know I'm ok. Ex--why don't you call me? Daughter--I called you 5 times last weekend and you didn't answer one call. Ex--I was out of town and didn't have coverage. Daughter--hmmm, that's funny, everytime I call someone that doesn't have coverage it usually goes right to voice mail. ex--Well, I guess I didn't hear the phone. How many freaking lies can she tell?????

The ex came to get my daughter last night and brings her BF to my house? He was riding his motorcycle and stayed in the street and didn't look my way. The ex made a big scene and basically told me to go f myself.

So, after all of this I responded to her email from the previous day with the following(I probably shouldn't have as I don't want her to think I care but right now I'm mainly pissed because of my daughter being in contact w/ a strange man.:

Daughter will not be staying here through her first semester. She and I will be leaving in Oct as planned.

As far as you and I being civil, well, I think that is out. I think you're full of #$%! about me meaning a lot to you and I really don't care. You don't mean anything to me. I always have taken good care of daughter and I'm not doing it for you.

As far as daughter saying f-bomb, well, I don't think using church as a punishment is going get her to stop(it obviously didn't help you any). As a matter of fact, maybe instead of judging her you should take a hard look at yourself in the mirror. Why should she stop cussing when you are living like a slut? Pot, kettle, fill-in ex's name here, pot, kettle.

Daughter told me she feels uncomfortable about that guy living there. Obviously you don't care though. Once again it's all about what you want. I'm sure you're spending quality time with daughter though.

One more thing, I have ignored your facebook request to be friends, you and I will never be friends on any level.


I know it's a bit extreme but it felt pretty good to send.