They say divorce is as bad emotionally as a death. Make sure you take your time and move on. It's going to take time and how long depends on you. You really need to continue the changes now for you. Soon, you will realize and revel in your new freedom. freedom from the rollercoaster, freedom from the XW's control, freedom from limbo.
Formerly SGfan M:38 W:33 M:8 yrs T:10 yrs Bomb: Dec '08 Separated: 4/18/09 Divorce: 8/28/09 XW Affair began: April 08