Currently the only positive out of this is the stories you are going to be able to tell when you get your life back the way you want it.
Only way you can get her back is to get to living, and that means everything that goes along with it. She has married someone else, what stronger statement could she makes in that right now "she doesn't want you".
So you do like many of us need to do and bachelor it up, like a beast. If you are going to get her back it is going to be through a strong desire and physical attraction. The only way to do it is to get it.
You are not going to do it by appealing to her mental and logical side. Because if you could have, she would not be married to this other dude.
