Bad day today...I got the annual mortgage stuff. This year the payment is going up $50 a month because of taxes and our home owners insurance increasing. It isn't too much, but when I see larger payments, I freak out and it scares me. I know I can do it. With God's help, I have made it through the last year, but now I am also in charge of the sunday school, which has no money so I am buying a bunch of stuff for that...which I will have to stop doing. It is all just so hard!
I need H to decide on what he is going to do so I can get a settlement. I am going to ask for $10000 which is just for him to pay back mortgage and the child support he missed last summer. I wouldn't ask for future stuff except child support. I just want what is owed me. He chose to leave and has not helped pay the mortgage although it is still his house too so I am just asking for half the mortgage for every month since he has left. That would help me because I would pay off the car and all that would be left is the mortgage, which frees me up $180 a month. I took on all the joint debt when H left. The only debt H has is his credit card and his student loan, which combined are only $300 a month, while I pay everything else so I think I am being fair...anyone out there who has been through this think I am just living in a dream world?
Anyway...rough day....
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