Originally Posted By: Taylor
My C is not pro-cheater..so he will advise me to file today, I'm sure.


If your C or any other C advises you to get a divorce right now. Find another C.

IMO that is something you come to yourself.

When you are in a healthy place to make that choice.

I am making that determination based on what you post here.

Protect yourself legally, physically and emotionally.

If you need to file D to do that then do it.

If you are filing D because you are hurt, angry, resentful or because he cheated on you and you want to punish him...

...then you are coming from a place of weakness and I can't imagine anyone counseling you to do that because it is a bell you can't unring.

Just my opinion...

You'll be moving on allright but

...Not forward.

Do the work Taylor.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am