Does DB'ing work if OW is playing the victim?!?!

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Thanks NMM, RNM & Mr B for all your advice.

H said I could stay as long as I want which was my intention anyway, I won't budge even if he changes his mind.

Now is the time I can really test DB. The following are what i'll be doing, please let me know it's nt consistent with your understanding of DB.

1.I'll do the 180; in my case, stop being a control freak about bills and expenses.

2.I'll continue to GAL and still be prepared for a possible D.

3.I won't inititate any R talk.

May God bless our M. God has been so good to me so far, I know I can continue to trust Him.