She needs to change her cellphone #. As long as he can keep texting her, even if she DOESN'T reply, she's getting a "fix" and it will set back her withdrawal "clock" to 0:00 each time.
Why is he still contacting her, if she's told him not to, and that she's working on her marriage?
Puppy
I wish I could. It is a number established for our business. Changing it will be a pain.(I know a pain or NC from OM what is worth more).
I am unsure why he has contacted her. I guess he needs his "fix" too?
She did tell me about him. They did meet a long time ago. They both had an intrest in horses. OM wife had some illness and left him about a year back. W said it was recently that they sttarted talking more.
I am seeing if I can block his number all together. It may fall under a parental measure ATT has in place. I'll see if OM keep contacting W. If so, I will talk to W first, going behind her back to do things is something she has been angry about. She has set a boundary with me on that and I will respect it. I will talk to W and tell her that " I still do not feel comfortable with OM contacting W. Even though you do not respond, it should be in your best intrest to call ATT and have him blocked."
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