Doing the same as her parents... I am not always fond of confornting OM.. It all depends on the lieklihood of positive results...
If you confronted him and told him to stop meddling and manipulating your wife... do yout hink he will just laugh at you?
You need the INTEL becuase you need to know what your wife's planning... She may send him notes telling him she will try to fool you into thinking she's changed her mind and go to FT for six months but will tell him in a secret email she is just diong it to quieten you up etc...
You need to KNOW what if anything she's saying to him behind your back...
