The idea is, she's going to try to make th marriage as miserable as possible so she can be OK about ending it.
YOU give her ZERO reasons for that by being an adult. You fix up the home, you meet with her parents for dinner. YOu throw a party at your place. You be an ADULT and watch her panic and spin out of control.. let her squirm... She's going through teh same emotiosn you are... She just doens't have the education to DEAL in a healthy manner and she has a OM prick pulling strings to make things worse for her...
THe Family Therapist is like an ANTI-OM... If you want the marriage to get BETTER you talk to a licensed professional with a background in social work who understands addiction and infidelity.
The OM does the OPPOSITE.. Rather than helping repair the marriage, his agenda is to tear it apart. You gotta go on the offensive there and have her parents tell him to STOP MEDDLING and to GET LOST
And you can consider doing the same ..
You will need to start collecting INTEL as well... QS is our counter-intelligence specialist here on teh forum so its best to talk to him.. there are a LOT of great ideas to find out what's going on...
