Quote: I said I wanted to resay what I said yesterday as I didn't think the words came out right. I said "the moving back and forth is hard on me, too, it really hurt me to have to watch this again. I hope that when you came back again, it would be because you wanted to be here. I really want you to come back home, I love you."
Good job. (In a non-boss tone!!!)
Quote: H then said don't you think I know that, I move back and then six days later I move back out. H said he was sick of it all and that he still hasn't figured anything out yet. I said well you need to take some time and figure it out, I'm not going to pressure you to do anything. I just want you to know you're always welcome here, you know that right? H said "yeah I'm welcomed at a lot of places lately" sarcastically.
Nice validating from both sides. I think that's a really good sign.
Today, for the first time, I truly feel like I am my H's friend, that I'm someone H can trust and can be honest with-a real friend...I've never felt that way before, in all the years we've been together...what a great feeling, I'm even getting emotional about it...
Awesome. That's such good news!!!! Be prepared for the ups and downs, because you're still on a rollarcoaster. However, this is a big improvement. Remember this good feeling so it can help you later. Overall, this sounds like it could be a turning point in your situation.
