Hey Kat, don't worry you're still my numeber one! Firstly, I don't want some young thing which is why I will sit elsewhere next week. I just wonder whether subconsciously I lean there because it's what I knew, I've never dated older women. Secondly, I guess it's just validating when a young woman seems to see you as a man...hell, it's validating if any woman sees me as a man!