You may also want to print out some good articles on how divorce harms children and leave them lying around in your work area at home.. you don't want to THROW them at him, but you do want him to see you are doing more research on this ...
If he IS guilty throwing harm to kids into teh mix will just add to his guilt and put more pressure on him to REALLY end things... RIhgt now it does NOT sound like its over at all.... Just toned down for a few months...
I honeslty think if you stop asking questions and start asking him to make some commitments to DEMEONSTRATE its over he will start to fight you...
He thinks he's got you fooled becuase you are focussing on the past and just want info from him instead of actual actions to demonstrate he MEANS what he says...
He can say he's sorry, but sorry needs to be expressed in ACTION... Sorry means "I'll stop the divorce", sorry means "I will end all contact with her at work and write a letter for both of us to send to her" etc
Not just sorry and then he walks away blubbering playing victim.. that's not an apology, its an escape
