I also think looking back...all the signs were there that a MLC was inevitable.
Read this ^^^^^ again and again. It took me a LOOOOONNNNGGGG time to get this. My W and probably your H would have hit this crisis regardless of what you or I did. Just remember that!
Once it sinks in, you will be able to maintain a love for your S regardless of what they do. You will begin to understand that true love…true unconditional love…let’s go. Let’s go with Love.
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I believe he will need to go down this path to realize that his unhappiness lies within him. Until that point, he will continue to blame everyone around him
BINGO! It is his issue – not yours.
Your issue is,
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his is not healthy for me and this is not what I want for myself.
So what do YOU really want for YOU. What dreams do YOU have. Who the heck are YOU outside the M? All questions that you want to take time to ponder.
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He has an enormous sense of entitlement
Yep – cause right now he feels that everyone stunted his growth. It is an easy way out for him cause he does not want to look at himself.
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This is what I am concentrating right now...instead of focusing all my energy on him
Standing hands clapping….YES>>>YES>>>YES>>>>>this is where lolawar should be!
Keep your head up – it does get better. Keep the focus on you. Surround yourself with friends and family. You can do this kido..ya can.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
