NM, totally agree with the rock climbing guy about what the online dating does. You have so many choices at your fingertips. If you were a non-commital type you'd probably be OK by casually dating lots of people and then see if you can find the one. However, if you wanted to find the one right off the bat, it'd be tough IMHO.
Starting over is tough...I think it's tougher for guys because girls tend to be a lot pickier. Like me I'd just want a 'normal' everyday girl who was somewhat cute- that'd be a great start. I wouldn't care about her income as long as she can pay her own bills (initially anyway). Her career, education, job, family etc wouldn't matter to me either as long as she was invested in me and we did things together.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again