Making progress and reconnecting.....ayieee

[CPCajun]

It wasn't a just like that. She was pretty argumentative at first. I let go of the rope, and poof. She couldn't fight any more. I just listened.

Next,I talked ...

And what did she SAY? What did she lead with?

Puppy

Just the usually "past 10 year stuff" again, plus we argued that even though "W says" nothing happened, does not meant it is not an A. You (W) had the intent, thats all that matters. Again she broke down about it.
Thats when I explained how the boundary works. I(We) need to set these up with eatch other to make things work, not demand something and be controlling about it. Thats when I asked what can I do? Finances was her issue. Then that is when she said what can she do. (I did find out you can't actually block calls/text on the phone.

I had checked the logs thru the weekend. I see 4 text to each other on Sat. Which I asked W, Since you broke off contact, has OM contacted you. She was honest and said yes. He text me good morning and ask what I was doing. I (W) replied that I was working and do not want to talk. I told W that it was good. She got tense and said ,she was not a dog, you do not have to tell me "good". I didn't argue or respond, but noted to myself, that I should of said Thanks, that made me happy she did the right thing. I saw OM try to text her Sunday, but W never responded.

-So far so good.


She also asked for me to stay the night again, which I did. The next morning she asked if I can make her breakfast, which I did.

We also spent the day watching a movie with our son. Then W and I went with some friends Geocaching. This is addictive, but we both love it. I am glad her friend showed us this. There is not much we really do together, but this has brought us closer together as we work as a team to find the caches.

Last night I told W I had a good weekend with her, which she said the same. I said good night and left to the apartment.

She later sent a text telling me good night.(Too bad I already fell asleep.)