Well for me when I think about the next R, I know I won't be as trusting as I was of my STBXW. So there's a big difference right there...I probably won't have anymore kids either. So it probably won't be as deep a R as the one with my STBXW. Of course, a lot depends on the woman and how she makes me feel.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again