just an update not much to tell ......but husband has gone totally dark.....is now living in same state as we are with o/w......but no phone calls.....no texts....no contact with our daughter at all...he does speak to his stepson when my son calls him, but nothing else at all......we no longer exist for him I guess....me GAL, feels good and not the same thoughts of him daily....he crosses my mind occasionally....feels good to be detached.....I actually prefer not speaking to him at all..... He has discontinued his regular child support payts. but I have reported him to the Atty.generals office of him not paying... BIG step for me to do that but he has to face the circumstances of his failure to pay... Was his idea to go thru the court system to set c/s in place..... And from what I have heard Tx doesnt play around with dead beat dad's....... Still standing and praying for him though......will do till I hear from the Lord on what I need to do next...... FORGIVENESS is key in all this.....peace comes and it really is beyond understanding......