I'm gonna need an attitude fine-tuning and script assistance as I have three major events this week.
Mon-Tues -Opening personal bank account -Getting W to sign Permission for me to take D on vacation July 24-31 -getting W to sign agreement to move personal possesions from house (NOT suggestin all; just two)
WED- Texting Infidellus Interruptus******
Thurs-Sat -Delayed reading (and posting) off all recieved texts and Vmail. NO RESPONSES UNLESS ENCHANTER APPROVED. -Exposure of A at her work. Possibly with two male friends of hers tht I know and are married. I'm hesistant to "call" her mom or aunt because they are both in the region with her. And I would like to start with her mom-in person. I will try to expose to his parents -Move all my non-essential possessions to storage
Sunday- The Confrontation will happen! - My Acknowledgement of her A (with no evidence shown) - ONCE- "I love you and Divorce is my LAST option" - A must stop -You have shown you have places to stay so I suggest you make them full time until you stop the A. -Calla will stay here as it is unhealthy for her to be exposed to the A. You can visit her here by appt. -If you won't stop the A, I will. -Here (prepared in advance) is the banking arrangement. -I have made an appt with a mediator regarding a Sep Agreement.
Mon- Confront OM at his work. Not sure if I should directly in front of W
That's as far as I am prepared.
ALL THE HELP I CAN GET, PLEASE.
Sounds like a pretty darn good plan to me, overall. On the Mon/Tues: Do you really have to get W's "permission" to take D on vacation? I'd like to see that attitude more of an agreement and not permission. Maybe not a big difference in a literal sense, but mentally. I know nothing of the legalities of any of this so I cannot say much here. I also don't know particulars of exposing so Allen and PDT are much better for you in this area but it all sounds like good stuff from what I've read of theirs.
I think your script for the confrontation is important. I can possibly help there as I'm pretty good with words and finding the balance between love and tough.
Just prepare yourself mentally for ANYTHING: any kind of response you are going to get thrown at you and how you are going to respond accordingly. If you're a praying man - pray a lot.
