I also told STBXWW the other day that through the D I'll remain somewhere between civil and amicable and that's all she can expect from me.
"No More MR Nice Guy" has made an impact on me...previously I was the doormat...keep the peace...don't rock the boat. But lately I've become more tough love as no one has ever held STBXWW's feet to the fire.
In May, STBXWW's BFF told me that I should let her keep a "friendship" with POSOM so that is the advice that she is getting from her friends.
M-43 FWW-42 T 20 M 16 DD10 DD8 EA: 1/10 Informal separation: 6/11/2010 Headed for D: 7/6/2010 Piecing? 9/10/10