but the thing I see, is that you are just now, gaining perspective on your own behavior and its contribution to the problems in your marriage.
You need to become aware of your mind reading and why you do it. Once you recognize it starting you can then apply a solution. You can't change the past but you can improve the now and your future.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
