What to Do Next

[loweinsd51]

Staying at the house this week so we can get it ready to sell while STBXWW and DD's go to FIL's for the week. So last night WW is going to take DD's over to friends for swimming...

STBXWW pours her second Sangria and I say "are you going to be able to drive" STBXWW replies "there's not much alcohol in these"...it worked because she only had a sip or two.

Then as they are going out the door I notice STBXWW had put cling wrap over the top of her drink so I told STBXWW "you know having an open container is illegal" STBXWW responds "what are you the police...unbelievable" then she put the drink in the refrigerator.

Twenty minutes later, STBXWW calls to ask if I can pick up DD's...I say yeah, I'll leave in about ten minutes...STBXWW says nevermind I'll bring them home...I say cool

I get up for work pretty early and I had to get up early yesterday so I wanted to have an early night...when STBXWW comes back I ask about sleeping arrangements and such then I tell STBXWW that I'm not a babysitting service.

I TM STBXWW that I don't appreciate nor do I like being taken advantage of. STBXWW says "welcome to the world of single parenting" to which I respond "I've had DD's since Thursday so I don't accept your premise"

Then we had the following TM exchange:

STBXWW: I really can't be there with you right now (implying I've done something wrong)
M: You're the one who cheated on me so if anyone has a right to be upset about the situation it's me
STBXWW: What does that have to do with watching DD's
M: I was responding to the "I really can't be there with you right now" like I've done something wrong...you betrayed me...that's all I'm going to say on that matter right now
STBXWW: You're so judgmental...I don't need that
M: Well I didn't need the dagger plunged into my heart by the one person I trusted more than anyone on this Earth...goodnight.

STBXWW came home about thirty minutes later.

I kissed DD's goodnight and told them to have fun...told STBXWW to have a safe trip and Thank you.

STBXWW doesn't like the fact that I'm holding her accountable for her actions but the message is getting through to her none the less.