1. Make it VERY clear that you want your wife to see a GOOD family therapist, not some quack shrink - its IDEAL if she and you see the same one 2. You tell her if she ends it and agrees to talk to a professional family therapist instead of that creep about her problems you will give her up to SIX months if she wants it. That's the deal, she can have up to six months if she decides to end the affair and solve her problems the ADULT WAY 3. YOu will have to confront OM... start buliding a script based on his character and how well you know him.. Rmember he's moving in on your wife so don't think eh's mr honest nice guy 4. You will have to expose to her parents as well before she runs damage control and turns them against you
Your wife WILL be talking to your entire social circle and running damage control very soon... Its standard tactics right now... You need to get there first to warn them she's spinning a tale. WHen you wanrn them and then she shows up later and lies to them to their face they will have no respect for her...
Don't bother talking to any party pals... Just adults and mature family members
