H came back with son this morning, I went to a friends for awhile and when I got back H was sitting on the couch, S was sleeping, so I intiated with H, we ml. H wanted to know why, he wants to know why, of course I didn't say because I care about you.
Then we get up starts getting the rest of his stuff that me moved back with him, the rest of his clothes and some hunting things. As he was carrying some stuff out H said when is all this moving going to end? I said I don't know, it's your decision. I helped him with it and when H was all loaded up. I went out in the garage, H wasn't even going to say goodbye, so I said are you leaving? H said yes. I said don't move all this stuff back again unless you're going to stay and then I said I love you. I didn't say it in spite, I just stated it. H said what, don't come back here anymore? I said don't move it all back again unless you're staying. I don't know if H understood or what but he left. I think this is a boundary and I mean it now.
H was pleasant the whole time he was here, too..
Did I say the right thing or the wrong thing...I FEEL it was the right thing. Now all I have to do is get ready for MY MONDAY CALL FROM H....
