He has not been tested yet, but I went in Friday and was tested myself. It is definitely something I can bring up to him.
I don't know how this fits in with the detachment. I don't feel any closer to him since this happened, but I also don't feel any further away. And since I'm hoping it would bring HIM closer, I guess I am putting some emotion into it.
I think the situation with the OW at this time is that they are "on hold" until some point in time - whether that is when her divorce is final in October or until he moves out from me or what I don't know. But I have a feeling when they broke it off it was with the idea that they were open to resuming the relationship in the future. So my question is, is there anything I can do from my end to make our relationship more attractive than a possible future relationship with her?
