Hey gals,
Red, cakeWALK, I love it! Thanks for your support.

Visit with WH today went relatively well. We spoke a lot. I got angry at times but much less than before & so therefore it was more productive. smile
I said something along the lines of, "You're right, our marriage was a sham, you were unahappy for years, you haven't loved me for years, you never wanted to spend time with me, I see all that now. This baby was also a lie." and he got all upset and said no, none of that was the case.
He was all teary about the baby and missing her.
I got the feeling all was not rosy with OW as he seemed to be not sure about where he was going to live when he went back.
As for jobs his old company said they would give him work as soon as it came up but that there was nothing immediately.
He is visiing the baby again the day after tomorrow and we are going to spend time the following evening also.

I guess this is an improvement!