I've been using two online support sites. I would appreciate any help/advice with my crumbling life. My twin 6 year olds' world is about to be shattered forever.

1st Site
2nd Site

The story is the same but the advice for the folks on both sites differ. Their stance I think is a little more hard core than this site would be but the damage we've done to each other seems insurmountable and I am very tired.

Chuck


Me 44, W 39, S 6, D 6, M 21
Bomb June 18, 2010
I filed D July 20, 2010
W filed counter suit Aug 2
Rings came off Aug 5, 2010