I fought hard to keep my M, but right at the core of it all was that staying together had to be because H and I wanted to be together because we loved one another. Staying together just for the childrens' sake was never an option.
I have lived through my own parents split and my experience has been that two 'happy' separated parents was way better than two unhappy ones who remained together.
A separation does not mean that a reconciliation is never possible.
As Lotus has said, only YOU know what to do.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
