Got a txt from H to say OW has broken up with him. Despite what I said in the previous post, I immediately tried to call him but no reply. So I sent him a txt to ask him to come home and I love him. Also txt to say the OW didn't deserve him. Then I went out to look for him, knowing he wouldn't be too far away from home. He must have spotted me driving around, as he sent a txt to say he's ok and that i should go home. So here I am. I'll have to leave it to God again.
You need to come at H from a position of strength. Begging & pleading isn't it. Why the bloody hell would you tell your H that OW doesn't deserve him?!? Your H doesn't deserve you. You need to believe that, and secondary, you need to make H understand that. That is the only possible way for you to turn your sitch around.
I'm not being a hard-a$$ with you. I'm living every single word I post to you. My H is still w/OW, but I've taken the razor sharp hard line w/him. He freaks out & I am not backing down. I'm not sure exactly what the dynamic actually is, but 1.) I have my self-respect 2.) H is way more bothered by me than the other way around.
M & H: 40 M: 5.5 T: 7.5 OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09 Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10
