are back to where they were, but it doesnt matter cos son is sick of dad calling him a failure etc, also said in the text that dad wont see in the future that he isnt a failure cos due to the fact he as f*******d up again he wont see sons future, so then I received a very angry ex on the phone calling me every name under the son, saying I had put son up to not doing this work experience and I had put son up to sending that text, he said I put the text together for him as son doesnt speak and spell like in the text. Go figure son was upstairs I was downstairs and didnt even know he had sent the text, I told ex I wasnt going to argue, I wouldnt speak to him when he phones up like this so I hung up. so thats it folks looks like the son and dad relationship is once again back to where it was this time last year. I bow out there is nothing more I can do xxx