The story of us

[MrBond]

So how are things now?

[bel44]

i give up. he calls everyday. is nice. i can tell he's being fake.

[MrBond]

How?

Try to detail what he said.

[bel44]

i can tell because we go out on a date and i try to ask questions about what is going on and he gets mad and says he is just tryong to be on a date. meanwhile, my lawyer wants to know what is wrong with me and why i dont procede and the nextthing i know he's driopping me off angrilly and i dont hear from him all weekend. hes supposed to come over for dinner tonight. if he shows up, i'll just try to shut my mouth and be pleasant. i'll see how long i can do that.

[bel44]

so hes coming over for dinner and i will try to be the oppitomy of submissiveness and narcassistuic supply and see how that works

[Dudess]

so hes coming over for dinner and i will try to be the oppitomy of submissiveness and narcassistuic supply and see how that works

Works to what, abq?

Why do you want (need) to get an abusive/narcissistic man to stay with you?

It's not a rhetorical question. I think it is an important question for you to ask yourself and find some answers to.

[Mystik]

I have to agree with Dudess. You shouldn't have to be submissive and feed his narcissism in order for him to love you. He should want you to be yourself, not a servant for him.

[bel44]

hey dudess!! you stood me up!!! LOL

[bel44]

yes, ladies. I know.

[MrBond]

Did you read DR at all?

"i will try to be the oppitomy of submissiveness and narcassistuic supply and see how that works"

You do not act submissive or anything. Agreeing with how he feels isn't giving in. And stop with the R talks and asking how you stand. My suggestion is to back off and be "busy". You're priming yourself up for a big fall again because he just isn't ready yet.