Had a great TG with my family. My family doesn't know H moved back out, nor do a lot of our friends. So TG morning, I left a voicemail for my H letting him know he was invited to my parents for TG.
Didn't hear from H all day. Called Stepson last night to see how hunting was, he said he didn't see anything, he didn't hunt in the afternoon, nor did his dad, my H. So I have no idea what H did yesterday afternoon or evening, H did have to work today.
H called this morning, I didn't answer the phone until the third time H called. I knew he'd call and knew he'd keep calling. The first words out of his mouth were "what's son doing" I said do you want to talk to son and gave son the phone. I wasn't going to talk to H, I told son to say goodbye and then son said daddy wants to talk to you
H asked if I was going hunting today. I said no. H said and there you go again changing your mind. I said well I talked to StepS last night and I didn't think it was fair to ask him to watch S3 and that StepS probably wants to hunt more than I do anyway, so I wasn't going to hunt. It's cold here anyway. At this point H changed the subject. H wanted to know what the F***ing Bulls**t message I left on his cell phone yesterday was about? H said don't they know I moved back out? I said no they don't. I'm discussing that with anybody anymore, what's important now is that I'm happy, I'm doing fine and that son is doing fine. Those are the important things right now. H didn't say anything after that either. H then asked who was at my parents, and if anyone had gotten a deer, I said no, we then talked a little more about my family.
H then said he went to a party at a bar Wednesday night and some of our friends were there, but they were "unsociable" I said did you talk to them? H said no they were in their little cliques, but then said he talked to D for about two minutes, had one drink and left. I said they're your friends, you're a good person, why didn't you talk to them. H then asked me if they knew he had moved back out I said no. H said why not? I said because it's none of their business, I'm not talking about it with anyone anymore. I have to keep repeating thing to my H, too.
H said that StepS went to H's brother for turkey dinner Wednesday night and H said he didnt' go...how bad is that? Won't even go to his own brother's.
I think my H spent TG eve and TG with his friend GUILT. H was mellow today, didn't seem so pissy either.
