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. It's so weird that communication has to be worked on even when you're not actively in an R.


ain't that the truth! It is even super important when you are divorced!

Well, I am glad to hear your H was just being an air head and not being selfish on purpose! Gatsby, I swear, he is truly going through some latent adolescent phase! Honestly! PHASE means TEMPORARY.

You are doing very well to be trying to nurture the friendship right now...I know it is hard but for your sitch, I really think it is worth the effort! Leave no stone unturned, right?


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004