Exposed finally,,limbo land

[newmama]

Optimust, good job dealing with damage control re: talking to your DD without bashing your W despite her horrible parental actions

AND for hooking her up with the friend who is impartial and wants the best for your DDs.

My custody class has emphasized that we are not to bash the other parent and we also should not give our kids advice about the sitch but to find someone they can trust and talk to. The latter is confusing to me, but the psychologists are the ones who come up with these guidelines based on their research.

So, you are a terrific father and your DDs are super lucky to have you there to help them through this. Well done!!!

And my jaw dropped and I called your W some nasty names when I read about what happened.