((Cathy)) I am so proud of you. You don't need to react to H... just do what you've been doing. If he threatens, say ok...if he's nice, great. If he's an a$$ let him be...but you continue to be way above his level...say goodbye, wish him a happy holiday...exactly like you did. As for McDonalds, you go girl! Don't let h make your life harder than it has to be, kids love McDonalds and it sure doesn't kill them to eat there now and then.
I hope you had a great meal and gots lots of love and hugs from the little guy today...you deserve it!