I just wanted to remind you that my situation is unique, have you not learned that by now? (j/k).

Gucci,
When our sitch first started my W gave me the list of things she always wanted from me in our relationship. This is before I discovered DR book and way before I found this forum. At that time I wrote this list of things down and made a promise to my W that I would make the changes and start doing those things. For the first month I did all these things and it became overwhelming to my W and her response was always "I just don't believe this is real, why now when I always wanted these things from you."

Once I discovered the DR book I stopped all these purusing things. Then once I came across this forum I learned many of the things I did were still considered pursuing.

This is why I am grateful to have you all here. I know I was stubborn for sometime and did not take your advice.

I sincerely do not want to mess this up so I will follow any advice given (within reason).

i will continue to provide detailed reports of our daily interactions.

What things right now are my DEFINITE Do's and Dont's?

M: 27, W: 25
Together since: 01/31/00
M: 10/4/09 (8 Months)
ILBNILWY: 01/24/10
EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted).
Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10
Retrouvaille: 09/10/10